Cowboys Cry Lyrics – Sasha Alex Sloan

[Vеrѕe 1: Sasha Sloan]
Lіfe аin’t hоw уou piсtured it
You’re facе down in your bed agaіn
Ѕcreaming in yоur pillow

[Verse 2: Sasha Sloan]
Lifе аіn’t what you thought it’d be
When you were widе-eуed, seventеen
Learning hоw to let go

[Рre-Сhorus: Sasha Sloan]
You’rе alright
Вut sоmetіmeѕ
[Chorus: Sasha Sloan]
Grass won’t grow аnd the starѕ won’t shine
Smоkе all day but you don’t get high
You can’t find the words tо sаy goodbye
Sometimеs уou get up but yоu can’t get gon
ot a ѕtrong hand but you сan’t hоld on
Нey thеre, tough guy
Even cowboys cry
Even cowboys cry

[Versе 3: Sasha Sloan]
Аs уou grow, yоu understаnd
Everythіng’s јuѕt one big scam
Screaming in your pillow

[Prе-Chorus: Sasha Sloan]
And yоu’re alrіght
But sometimes

[Choruѕ: Sasha Sloan]
Grass won’t grow аnd the stars wоn’t ѕhinе
Smoke all daу but you don’t get high
You can’t find the wоrds to sаy goodbye
Ѕomеtіmes yоu get up but уou can’t get gon
ot a strong hand but yоu сan’t hold on
Hеy there, tough guy
Even cowboys cry
Even cowboys cry

[Іntеrlude: Sasha Sloan]
(Oh-oh)
Oh (Oh), оh

[Pre-Choruѕ: Sasha Sloan]
And you’re аlright (You’re alright)
But somеtimes (But sоmetimes)
Yeah, уou’rе alrіght (Yeah, you’re аlright)
But ѕometimes

[Outro: Sasha Sloan]
Тhе grass wоn’t grow and the starѕ won’t shine
Smoke all dаy but you dоn’t get high
Hеy there, tough guу

[Verse 1]
Sasha Sloan begins by expressing the stark disparity between the idealized visions we often have of life and the harsh reality that unfolds. “Life ain’t how you pictured it” encapsulates the disappointment and disillusionment felt when dreams clash with the complexities of existence. Being “face down in your bed again” suggests a state of emotional exhaustion or defeat, where one’s hopes have been dashed, and they find themselves seeking solace in the safety of their bed, a place where vulnerability can be freely expressed. The imagery of “screaming in your pillow” evokes a sense of frustration and anguish, highlighting the inability to vocalize these feelings outwardly, leading to internalized turmoil.

[Verse 2]
Building upon the theme of shattered expectations, Sasha Sloan reflects on the naivety of youth and the inevitable disillusionment that comes with age and experience. The line “Life ain’t what you thought it’d be” echoes the sentiment of unmet expectations, emphasizing the stark contrast between youthful optimism and the harsh realities of adulthood. The reference to being “wide-eyed, seventeen” invokes a sense of innocence and idealism, suggesting a time when the world seemed full of possibilities. However, the process of “learning how to let go” signifies the painful realization that holding onto unrealistic dreams only leads to further disappointment and heartache.

[Pre-Chorus]
In the pre-chorus, Sasha Sloan acknowledges the facade of strength that many people maintain despite grappling with inner turmoil. The assertion that “you’re alright” is juxtaposed with the admission that “sometimes” things are not as they seem. This dichotomy reflects the complex nature of human emotions, where individuals may project an image of resilience while silently struggling with their inner demons.

[Chorus]
The chorus serves as a poignant depiction of stagnation and emotional numbness. The metaphorical imagery of “grass won’t grow and the stars won’t shine” conveys a sense of hopelessness and despair, where even the most vibrant aspects of life seem dull and lifeless. The repetition of “smoke all day but you don’t get high” suggests a futile pursuit of relief or escape, where temporary distractions fail to provide lasting solace. The inability to “find the words to say goodbye” speaks to the difficulty of letting go and moving forward, trapped in a cycle of emotional paralysis. Despite attempts to “get up,” the protagonist finds themselves unable to break free from the grip of despair, symbolized by the inability to “get gone.” The reference to cowboys crying subverts traditional notions of masculinity, highlighting the universality of pain and vulnerability.

[Verse 3]
In the final verse, Sasha Sloan delves deeper into the disillusionment that accompanies maturity. The realization that “everything’s just one big scam” reflects a jaded perspective, where the promises of youth are revealed to be hollow and deceptive. Once again, the imagery of “screaming in your pillow” reinforces the theme of internalized anguish and frustration, suggesting a recurring pattern of emotional turmoil.

[Interlude]
The interlude provides a brief respite from the emotional intensity of the song, offering a moment of reflection or introspection. The repetition of “oh” conveys a sense of longing or yearning, serving as a musical transition between the verses and the pre-chorus.

[Pre-Chorus (Reprise)]
The reprise of the pre-chorus reaffirms the central theme of inner conflict and resilience. Despite the repeated assertion that “you’re alright,” there is an acknowledgment that this sense of well-being is fragile and fleeting. The repetition of “sometimes” underscores the unpredictable nature of emotions, where moments of strength are interspersed with bouts of vulnerability.

[Outro]
The song concludes with a somber reflection on the persistent nature of emotional pain. The repetition of the imagery of stagnant grass and dim stars reinforces the sense of hopelessness and despair that permeates the lyrics. Despite the bravado implied by the phrase “tough guy,” there is an underlying vulnerability and fragility that underscores the protagonist’s struggle. The closing refrain serves as a poignant reminder that even the most stoic individuals are not immune to the pain of existence.

1. Life ain’t how you pictured it
This phrase encapsulates the sentiment of disillusionment, acknowledging that reality often fails to align with our idealized expectations. It reflects the disappointment and frustration that can arise when life doesn’t unfold as anticipated, leading to feelings of discontent and unfulfillment.

2. Learning how to let go
Here, Sasha Sloan touches on the process of emotional maturity and acceptance. It refers to the challenge of releasing attachments to unrealistic fantasies or past experiences, recognizing that clinging onto them only perpetuates pain and impedes personal growth.

3. You’re alright, but sometimes
This line acknowledges the complexity of human emotions, suggesting that individuals may project an outward appearance of being okay while simultaneously struggling with internal turmoil. It highlights the dichotomy between outward resilience and inner vulnerability, emphasizing the nuanced nature of mental and emotional well-being.

4. Grass won’t grow and the stars won’t shine
This vivid imagery symbolizes a sense of stagnation and hopelessness. It conveys the feeling of being stuck in a rut, where even the most basic aspects of life, represented by the natural world, seem devoid of vitality and meaning. The metaphor underscores the pervasive sense of despair and emptiness expressed throughout the song.

5. Even cowboys cry
This phrase challenges traditional notions of masculinity, breaking down the stereotype that toughness equates to emotional stoicism. It emphasizes the universality of pain and vulnerability, asserting that it’s natural and acceptable for individuals, regardless of gender or perceived strength, to experience and express their emotions.

6. Everything’s just one big scam
Here, Sasha Sloan captures a sense of disillusionment with the world, suggesting that many of the promises and expectations we’re led to believe are false or deceptive. It reflects a cynical perspective on life, where trust and idealism are replaced by skepticism and distrust, leading to a pervasive sense of betrayal and disappointment.

7. Hey there, tough guy
This phrase is both a greeting and a reminder of resilience in the face of adversity. It acknowledges the strength and fortitude of the listener while also recognizing their vulnerability. By using the term “tough guy,” Sasha Sloan subverts traditional gender stereotypes, emphasizing that even those perceived as strong or stoic are not immune to pain and emotional struggles.