Mother Lyrics – THICK

[Verse 1]
I’m not your mother
I didn’t carry you for nine months in my womb
I’m just your lover
And I’m tired of getting those two roles confused

[Refrain]
I’m not your past, I’m not your ex
I’m not the bad dreams that keep you stuck inside your bed
I’m not your past, I’m not your ex
I’m not the bad thoughts that keep you stuck inside your head

[Pre-Chorus]
You can’t have what you want to have
I can always be erased
You can’t have what you want to have
I can always be replaced

[Chorus]
Just slow down
Eyes on yourself
Can’t be the one for you to lean on

[Verse 2]
I’m not your father
I’m not the one who lied and caused you all of your pain
I’m just your lover
And I’m tired of bearing the burden of his mistakes

[Refrain]
I’m not your past, I’m not your ex
I’m not the bad dreams that keep you stuck inside your bed
I’m not your past, I’m not your ex
I’m not the bad thoughts that keep you stuck inside your head

[Pre-Chorus]
You can’t have what you want to have
I can always be erased
You can’t have what you want to have
I can always be replaced

[Chorus]
Just slow down
Eyes on yourself
Can’t be the one for you to lean on
(Don’t pull me in this)
Put pressure
(I’ve already given)
Onto the ground
(More than I wanted)
Can’t be the one for you to lean on

[Outro]
Hush, little baby, don’t say a word
Your mother’s gonna buy you a mockingbird
And if that mockingbird don’t sing
Your mother’s gonna buy you a diamond ring
And if that diamond ring don’t shine
Your mother’s gonna buy you a fu*king good time
And if that good time falls apart
Your mother’s gonna take care of your broken little heart

[Verse 1]
The singer asserts her role in the relationship, emphasizing that she is not a maternal figure but rather a lover. She challenges the confusion between these roles, rejecting expectations of nurturing and caretaking that aren’t hers to fulfill.

[Refrain]
The singer reaffirms her identity and independence, distancing herself from her partner’s past traumas and insecurities. She refuses to be defined by his previous experiences or negative thoughts, asserting her own individuality and emotional boundaries.

[Pre-Chorus]
This section highlights the impermanence of the relationship, with the singer acknowledging that she can be replaced or erased if her partner’s desires change. It underscores the fragility of their connection and the lack of certainty in their future together.

[Chorus]
The singer urges her partner to take responsibility for his own well-being instead of relying on her for support. She emphasizes the importance of self-reliance and self-care, indicating that she cannot fulfill the role of a constant source of strength or stability for him.

[Verse 2]
Similar to the first verse, the singer rejects being cast into a paternal role, refusing to bear the burden of her partner’s past mistakes or pain caused by others. She reiterates her identity as a lover, not a parental figure, and asserts her right to be free from the weight of his past.

[Refrain]
Again, the singer emphasizes her separateness from her partner’s past experiences and negative emotions, asserting her own autonomy and agency in the relationship.

[Pre-Chorus]
This repetition underscores the transience of the singer’s role in her partner’s life, highlighting the possibility of being replaced or forgotten if she fails to meet his expectations.

[Chorus]
The final chorus reinforces the message of self-reliance and independence, urging her partner to focus on himself rather than relying on her for emotional support. The parenthetical lines suggest a sense of frustration or exhaustion with his dependence on her.

[Outro]
The outro contrasts with the rest of the song, invoking a traditional lullaby to convey a sense of maternal care and protection. However, the lyrics take a dark turn, suggesting that even maternal love has its limits and cannot always protect against pain or disappointment. It serves as a cynical commentary on the idea of unconditional love and caregiving.